speaker 1: 
speaker 2: this call may be recorded press one to accept hello hey hey how you doing Jeremy had to go he wants me to put the mounting bracket for the fan up for him okay that okay if I do that okay hey want to ask you about you would think if I just choose to believe you and be sorry cuz I believe you
speaker 1: I'm instead of asking me that you could have just tried it out today it doesn't tell me that that's something you want to try
speaker 2: struggling to understand the things that you're saying I'm doing wrong I'm trying to be helpful to you you're saying that I'm harassing you and abusing you I feel like I'm trying to serve you not trying to rescue and if I understood know you do you
speaker 1: actually that's I mean I'm really dumbfounded at that claim it may it honestly just makes me sick like you know you know that I made a very very clear request to you yesterday that if you have something you need not ask me or communicate to me you're able to call me or text me and you shouldn't be coming up to me with questions when I happen to be at the property at a time you had no idea I was going to be off the property within 6 hours at that time there's no reason that that specific moment when I'm in your field of vision is the moment but you need to ask me a question or tell me
speaker 2: something
speaker 1: that's literally the conversation we have yesterday is literally the conversation that got twisted around on me with you saying did you say that you want is it harassing you even though you knew what was harassment you did a stupid twist around to act like I had accused you of harassing me by doing yard work even though you knew knew that the harassment laws what's going out of your way to be able to get at me off the Record when there's an opportunity communicate with me on the record Twisted it around and they calling it harassment for you to be doing yard work that's the reason that I don't want our conversations off the Record because I can't look back at the text and go
speaker 2: wow and we have conversations at this property all the time we have them we've had them almost every single day out here this week so I'm not I'm not trying to have the record conversation I've made it clear all of
speaker 1: them that I've made it clear in all of them that was not welcome by
speaker 2: me when you talk to me honey I'm sorry that I talked to you earlier I'm not trying to harass you I'm just trying to serve you and I did not know but I need to
speaker 1: I know that the way that you walk around on me and the way that you make everything be my fault is something that I need a record of I need to be able to look at the conversation and I need to be able to see what I actually said and compare it to how you actually
speaker 2: say I can I know that's why it's not okay for it's not be on record that's why it's not okay for it to not be on the
speaker 1: record that's why this right here right now in this moment is why it's not okay and do that today
speaker 2: why is it okay for you to come over here and talk to me then
speaker 1: I didn't know that that was the boundary I didn't know that that was a boundary that you
speaker 2: had I'm not saying it's a boundary that I have and I'll
speaker 1: try and cuz that's fine because it's not a boundary that you have when I asked you a question or when I tell you something you don't feel fearful you don't feel I don't feel stopped so you haven't made that request as me if you made that request in me I would be able to honor it because I'm an honorable person who's not intend wage on trampling other people's boundaries are making other people uncomfortable or asserting my rights to do things to other people that they've said makes them uncomfortable and that being how I know I would respond and I'm pledging that I will respond if you want to make that request makes it really perplexing to me that you would take my boundary and sees on it as an opportunity to make me look bad for having it it just I'm just dumbfounded that would never do
speaker 2: that trying to make it look like
speaker 1: using my boundary against your acting like unreasonable because I don't do the same thing I don't I don't do the same for you or I don't have a good enough reason to put that battery is
speaker 2: dead battery is it only time I help you I'm
speaker 1: sorry I can't hear you I'm sorry you're breaking up
speaker 2: okay then I it would be easier to follow your rules if the rationale was consistent if I sense that you I'm I'm sincerely I'm trying to do this to make you comfortable cuz like about you yeah I'm using to me that we have lots of conversations that are off the Record that are totally fine and I'm not home I'd say probably rules that makes it difficult when it doesn't need to ask you a question
speaker 1: and I know that's clever clever okay so when I have a question I have when I have a question for you or I have something to tell you I'm not fearful of what the tactic is for what the ulterior motive is I know what the question is cuz I'm the one asking it so I'm not fearful of it I don't want to tell you something I'm not fearful of what how am I going to respond I don't know what's going to be said because I'm the one who making the statement and cheerful of you seizing on my physical presence as a reason to suddenly need to ask me a question or tell me something because of my history of how you've treated me because of how you treated me this weekend when do you ask me if you should move the Dirt Pile or clean up first it was not okay for you to follow me around after I took made it clear that that was not a conversation I was willing to have and I didn't owe you an explanation for that wasn't okay for them to try to make me feel embarrassed for not wanting to tell you what to do with the shower door
speaker 2: but the fact that
speaker 1: you made an issue out of it being off for me to have a problem with respect to that
speaker 2: text
speaker 1: you want me to sing
speaker 2: just all I did was
speaker 1: that's not true I did
speaker 2: was ask you about the shower door because you didn't read or
speaker 1: write that was all you did with that so on the record you're an angel you
speaker 2: didn't respond to my you didn't respond to me ask you about it when you said to you
speaker 1: instead of sending a text that says why are you not responding to my tax so we would have a clear record of your question and a clear record of my answer or career record record of my non-wage honest in said you needed to see his on a personal in in-person interaction without a record the pin me down about my refusal to answer your question about CA McDonald's shower
speaker 2: door and you didn't shut off the question do with the shower door and I said that if
speaker 1: you know you made a credit some of my mom responding to the account so that I know that okay you're not being honest about how the conversation went down and this is why I know but I'm just saying right now all you're doing is playing out all of the evidence from all of the confirmation for me that every bit of fear that I experience every time I tried to get away from you was warranted fear every bit of comfortableness was reasonable uncomfortableness every since I had that I was being harassed was a reasonable sends that that was all like none of that was made up in my head it was all real because you really criticize me and you really tried to make me feel bad and you really said that it wasn't sure if you have your tax and now you're trying to tell me about the conversation happened differently but you
speaker 2: don't want to respond to the if you could tell me that so that I'm not limber forever
speaker 1: and I don't think that your opening phrase about what if I pretended to understand you like that was a nice little glimmer of hope to go out there but that question doesn't in any way relate to what you're actually having a conversation with me about we're not at all talking about even a hypothetical scenario in which you pretend to
speaker 2: understand okay well what
speaker 1: phone number station has been this conversation has been you questioning me conversation has been you talking about how you don't understand like trying to poke home in my ideas about I'm
speaker 2: really not trying to poke hold
speaker 1: I then why are we doing
speaker 2: this this is not I'm saying it would be easier to follow your rules if I could understand if they were consistent
speaker 1: it's yeah you tried to convince me that my wheel bearing consisted of about it if you want to have the same boundaries I'm just have them if it's confusing for you for me to ask you a question I'm just saying I need you to not approach me ask me a question and then if you want to have a
speaker 2: normal life with you where we support one another in research children
speaker 1: then you're asking me to pretend that the harassment has not happened towards me you're asking me to prepare found anything yes you are you want to drop my down you're not wanting to set up a boundary on your end so that it's consistent both ways you're wanting me to drop my boundary life so it's consistent both ways which gives you the upper hand because you're happy to trample everything about me every time to your advantage literally nothing else changed in that
speaker 2: scenario I'm not asking you to drop your boundaries
speaker 1: okay but you can't follow it unless it's consistent both ways but you're
speaker 2: not willing to set that bad that I can't. I'm not trying to not follow it I'm not trying to not follow your boundary there and I found an item here that I thought you would want to have I didn't think that it was harassing it for me to ask if you would like to have it I'm
speaker 1: sorry you had your phone right in your pocket didn't
speaker 2: you I have my phone in my pocket
speaker 1: you could take it a picture of the item and you knew
speaker 2: it I'm sorry that I asked you about the fan I'm sorry
speaker 1: okay so you can be sorry about that and we can pretend that that's all you did we can now have a phone recording where we can have a phone recording and you can listen to it for the next fifty years well you remember how all you suck it so sweetly and so friendly and so serving and so lovingly is said would you like this
speaker 2: fan this one
speaker 1: and I certainly just started calling you a harasser and a soccer because we don't have a recording of what actually happened is that we have is what you're saying happened right
speaker 2: now what are you saying happens about you what are you saying happened I told you that
speaker 1: the problem was asking me about the fans sounds really innocent and gives me a false sense of safety package drives me into having a conversation with you which then you turned to all kinds of other things that you know are not okay with me
speaker 2: a talking about at the house today we had a conversation about things that you're not okay with yes yes okay I I thought I asked you about the thing and you said that was
speaker 1: harassment again like that's what you want to say
speaker 2: happened and I know but
speaker 1: there's a whole lot of other stuff you're you're asking me do I want you to do this or do I want you to do that well straight up telling me you have intentions of doing the opposite of what I'm saying like it's all the ridiculous set up to ask me about your dirt pile doing I've been doing
speaker 2: everything you've asked all week I
speaker 1: know but that's like I've been doing everything you've asked all weeks off I have I know but it's absurd to want to frame it as though you're doing it because I'm asking
speaker 2: you to do it you won't let me do anything that's in my own head you want me to do everything that you tell me in the order that you tell me or
speaker 1: how know and that's the problem with all of this that's unlike God you're not owning the fact that you broke that sense and that you should have fixed it the day after you broke it you're not owning the fact that you put a pile of Ash you're not owning the fact that you put a pile of rubble in your family's yard and you should have cleared it the day after you put it there you're pretending that
speaker 2: way we were going to fill that that part of the yard in we decided to do
speaker 1: that I know but you're not owning the fact that these tasks needed to be done because of something bad and selfish that you did you're pretending that the chain link and the
speaker 2: office we hadn't planned to put up a a wall right
speaker 1: there but you have to do those things yep because I am just horrific dictator who is
speaker 2: the dictator I do not think that
speaker 1: you just told me that you have only sent this whole week did I tell you to do and only in the order that I tell you to do it and you won't admit it won't
speaker 2: do anything else you say that I'm not serving you in that
speaker 1: way I know you're not losing me but what you need to admit is that there are things in life that would need to be done if I had never been born for basic responsibilities in life that are result of bad decisions that you have made that have nothing to do with me and you want me to have to dictate to you that you have to move a dirt pile so that so that's what you have to spend your time doing so that you can have to notify them are innate you don't need to be putting that on me it what I should never have had to ask you to move the Dirt Pile not even once that has crossed
speaker 2: over here until you asked me to come work and I've been doing everything that you
speaker 1: have on me again I cannot do anything off season not conversation but I want to have with you anymore I don't enjoy talking to you ever I I really don't I'm Only Happy When I'm not talking to you and I am almost all she can't be when I am not talking to you I don't remember anything in this conversation
speaker 2: you for the Dirt Pile I I don't believe for the Dirt Pile
speaker 1: but you did you
speaker 2: did I don't I don't think the dirt off your phone's I don't think that I would not think that I don't think
speaker 1: that just Mobile plan that I wasn't allowing you to access the property I I just cannot do this anymore I am I just I do not want to talk to you anymore I would like to stop and Boozled that you acted like you had something new to talk to me about but this is the same thing
speaker 2: I do and this is saying ever even
speaker 1: in its and I feel like I was being Bamboozled by your opening question what if I pretend to understand.
speaker 2: I didn't say pretend to understand I said choose to believe you because I believe you because
speaker 1: your customer example the man who believes me you literally only argued wage literally everything I said who is literally not been a sentence I've spoken that you've actually chosen to believe you're saying you choose that doing choosing to believe me and and it
speaker 2: is your fault I don't I don't believe that and I'm
speaker 1: happy to take care of things that you have said relative to it in this conversation or very disturbing to me and if there's something new that you wanted to tell me that you haven't had an opportunity to tell me I can't honestly say that I trust you to just say it I can't honestly say that I don't think it's just a setup to get me into another circular conversation with you off and you just prefer the you text me the new thing
speaker 2: and I love you
speaker 1: is that what you talk to
speaker 2: Tommy I called to tell you because I honey I'm trying to honor you not I'm not trying to harass you when you come over here I'm trying to serve you definitely makes it my whole
speaker 1: life that definitely mr. Hooper
speaker 2: worse and it's like no matter what is there an option in service I have towards you it's like no matter what I do it's abusive and I don't want that and I'm trying not to do that and I just want to get along with you and go over with you and raise their babies
speaker 1: but nothing's changed you don't even I mean you said you want to believe me but like I'm not the only one like
speaker 2: there's not the only one was
speaker 1: that you need to
speaker 2: believe okay
speaker 1: there's a lot of people have told you the same stuff and you don't actually believe those people
speaker 2: okay the same I don't somebody no
speaker 1: are you there
speaker 2: not targeting you I love you
speaker 1: didn't call anybody else tonight to tell them that you're choosing to believe what they said
speaker 2: about your abusive Behavior you choose me nobody else has told me anything Aaron
speaker 1: based on that statement alone I really think I need to go now you don't have to stay up all night it's healthy to sleep during the same hours each night I do need to come and fix first and I do need the interior painted after that
speaker 2: goodbye and