speaker 1: this call may be recorded press one to accept wage but I did not talk to her when she stops her I don't know before that she called me on last Tuesday and I did not talk to her you didn't so it's been more than a week yeah well no you don't guess you have a call call log I'm driving okay I'm looking at it driving it looks like how about to be over there but dude that you don't want to add I mean I don't know if you comprehend the extent of the damage that you did on Sunday but you have a lot of work to do on yourself okay you already said that I was just acknowledging that you don't want to come inside but I will have it for those that you like not continue to put that on me okay as you know have this have this warped view of it that your wife is making up rules and you're being submissive compliant husband like let's have a holistic view of the situation right a mutual recognition of all the work that you have to do in therapy and self-reflection speaker 2: to speaker 1: make the safe for your kids right sure that's why I'm repeating myself because cuz that should be the way that the way that you're approaching the conversation not putting it on me to make good decisions for you okay what is there anything else you needed for me while I'm over here at the side I mean as much as you can empty out the shed that would be a healthy thing to do. and again what that leads to is is the fact that you made a commitment to me to sell your camera equipment and it's not clear to me whether I can trust you when you make commitments like that okay all right I'm here by okay bye