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speaker 2: this call may be recorded press one to accept hey hey Mommy do you graduate tonight yes yeah congratulations my mom tried to extend my stay here cuz we don't have the house situation figured out and they won't let me basically just really strange because a ton of people have stayed here. Yeah but basically they perceive that you're just kicking the can down the road and what you need more than anything is to figure out what you're doing with your life and I guess that's good I mean right it's not like it has to do with they don't have enough beds there right I mean it's not like they would weigh in with me on that and then you can think of that month I know but you can tell if there's not really they're pretty full here I mean there are pretty full but isn't possible dead and your mom already knows that hotels are less than $600 a day if that's really what she's wanting to do she won't she doesn't want me to stay in a hotel room by myself so she's saying well until I can she's got a bunch of my stuff so she's saying we can bring your stuff down you should either go to Maryland and stay with Jasper come to Portland and see with me yeah so she's controlling you with her money and we can send them after your stuff anytime you know you know what I mean you don't need to feel like she owns you and get to tell you what to do well I told her that I wasn't sure if I would choose one of those but it's not life is it is what it is is hey it's really nice if you offer I'll let you know what I need and I'll also let you know when I need to get my stuff back but the therapist decides when you get to live by yourself not your mom so they think that they might agree with her that it's going to go to a hotel room by myself but hopefully has already said that oh oh he said you could go to an apartment that has no furniture but you can't go to a hotel that has a comfortable bed recently been that makes sense wage but you that way her concerns makes sense to him but I'm saying he's willing for you to go to an apartment apartment would literally be like unfurnished right you know what I'm saying yeah I think but I I don't think that you're representing and I think that's what they think would be better yeah yeah I'm just saying you can think about it you know what I mean like you can you can think about it for yourself and go okay am I am I capable of sleeping in a hotel yes I am you know I think so I don't know yeah do I have a core belief that things can get better yes I do yes and you're ready right now I'm proud of you and I'm happy for you and I think that you're amazing and I miss you this is not a surprise okay all right I guess I'll call you later all right love you all right love you too bye-bye