speaker 1: speaker 2: this call may be recorded press one to accept hi what's up hey I need to call you back yesterday I never got you and something you want to talk about anything anything you want to talk about I don't know remember when you called me and I had to go to class yesterday okay I tried to call you back you never answered with her something for calling me about I don't I don't know I don't think so I'm having kind of a stressful night I'm probably not going to be very good on the phone oh what's going on I'm just worried about me getting out of here and killing myself since you calling it says and some of them down here on me and crying your mom sending nurses down here down to my Cottage okay so it's already had a rough time on the phone okay I mean I hear you say it's stressful how do you feel about her doing that speaker 1: I speaker 2: don't know is it feel good like like knowing someone really cares about you it's still bad like she's taking advantage of the emotional information you're giving her something similar to that probably do you trust me I think so speaker 1: bye speaker 2: and is that something that just let it I wasn't I wasn't sure I wasn't sure I wanted to know and test you to tell me the truth okay. Tell me if you're not going to tell me and that more in terms of like doing good for you vs doing you harm I don't know what I don't know I feel kind of enthused yeah thank you for trying to right thing yeah do you do you trust your mom so do you trust 10 me Chester sales just Rodger my boss you're asking if I just my boss sure do you I mean I don't think he's lying to me it wouldn't get advice from him yeah it really disappointed that you didn't trust me and appreciate would I explain to you about my conversation with your mom I don't know what you mean like I tried to explain to you that I calmly told her many times you know that I was preferring that to go through my attorney and that I had good reasonable logical reasons that it's not safe for me to be having direct conversations and just ridiculously Ad nauseam with her using a lot of I remember you saying that I don't know anything I don't trust you will because I was explaining that like I but when my voice got shaky she got really like excited and seized on that to be like listen to yourself do you even hear yourself right now wage listen to you you're completely irrational or some you know there's something wrong with you emotionally and it was telling you you know like she was wanting me to cry so that she could then turn a finger and pulley and say it's my emotional whatever stopping me from being able to have a rational conversation about Dustin's living situation and you defended her and said oh that's not what she was wanting to do but like proof is in the pudding is she she didn't say I should have respected your boundary when you said you didn't want to talk about this proof is in the pudding she decided to memorialize it in a text message that I had an emotional problem that you made a way asked now that she egged me on about it and degraded me and insulted me and talk down to me and tried to embarrass me and manipulate me for twenty minutes straight but that she nearly was just asking and evidently I can't do that because of my problems like should be able to hear that that happened and understand that it really happened not that your mom was actually just I mean to get that she was wanting to work out where you could live but it's not that she was wanting to work out where you could live and incidentally I really did become overly emotional for no reason because I have problems and that wasn't your most intense whatsoever like you need to appreciate what actually happened can only take your money wasn't there so you don't need to talk to me like that that's been like like that on its own is to imply that you would have needed to hear the conversation like saying that you are you like I can take your word for it like you don't need to act like you're taking my word for it or need to figure out whose version of events is accurate thank you know I know but I'm saying you know your mother and you know me and I should be able to tell you what happened one time and you should have ever taken my mother's side of your you would I'm telling you that when I explained that conversation to you your response was to say oh she wasn't meeting to me that you I'm sure are in sorry you were asking me to believe that her intentions were completely pure and that I actually became overnight Channel about her simply asking a logistical question about Dustin's living situations like you're participating in the abuse with her when you gasoline me like that like you know her and you know me you know what she means when she says you can tell people whatever you want but you and I both know what happened to this conversation I'm sorry what sorry that she treated you that way and I'm sorry you feel supported have to go turn them lights on oh I'm sorry I'm sorry I didn't mean to I didn't mean to do that okay all right so going to say something is your feeling that you need more therapeutic care after this week I don't know that that's going to help me which I mean what are you feeling that you need I don't know I got to go do you feel like you know what your mom is planning don't tell me are you scared of her I guess I think I know how to stay out of trouble plus I got to go I mean I see literally comes here and kidnap I don't think she can you just have me pretty worried yes oh okay unless I screw up or something's going to I got to go all right bye-bye