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speaker 2: this call may be recorded press hello hi Dustin hi I was just getting ready to call you I was just going to find out what else I can do for you you got all the construction materials and tools and everything moved from the yard do you have like tools I'm not sure I got the siding and good yes the singles I have not moved cuz I think that they should stay somewhere so I got to figure out where to put them put them somewhere you can put them anywhere you know I just didn't want them sitting on the ground I'll take care of it all right that's good that's a ruse and cut some Vines down from the trees really just need everything you know the item off I know I said that I took care of that what's that I I know but okay that'd be great because I mean you can do that then I can use some help with painting the interior but mostly I mean don't don't go in and start painting cuz I need that stuff removed okay yeah I'm going to make a right onto the storage unit and drop some stuff off there and then I was going to come back okay I wondered if you want to hang out with you with it. Yeah McDonald's or Burger King or playground hold on just a second I need to have fun sorry about that it's 4:33 now seeing the here an hour and forty-five minutes I don't know I'm at Stanley Drive but I was getting ready to make a run and stuff items if you wanted to the same doctor king or playground or the McDonald's I could just drop the kids off wherever you are and like 5:45 okay I'm fifty so probably a playground okay is that okay let's play around do you want me to drop them at 5:45 it's going to play around loads and that area closest to Lowes might be goffinsville I do that okay so you know we're golfing still is no but I'll find it well hey can I get in there with Michael Taylor I think so it's a boat ramp but maybe better naked like 535 since that's a little further away from me is that okay I mean further away from from my showing hold on just a second all right sorry about that I think I will stay tonight and put up the sheet molding well that's not okay with me because you haven't finished painting the entire interior and you're creating a new
speaker 1: job
speaker 2: this is the first time you've asked me to think the interior I know but I can't ask you to do something when you haven't finished the previous thing attached to do and not okay with you painting the interior because you haven't removed the materials from the yard I tend to go to check if you had done what I asked and you hadn't so it's not safe for me to change the interior because you might take the interior without moving the shingles it's not moving the what without moving the shingles like not it's not going to please me if you start painting the interior when the symbols are still there but it's certainly not going to play with me if you create another project that needs to be finished on the interior when there's already not enough time to finish existing project so please do not install shoe molding okay okay can you pick up the thinset and the grout I'm going to have the neck child front porch off I do that you could do what nevermind I will look at this crowd but I don't know that I could do that before 5:30 a.m. to actually I probably going to lose but the grout for probably I don't know what growth to get you cuz I don't know what you're doing I'm just using
speaker 1: to what would you call
speaker 2: them so what what just on the top step not the whole thing just the top just the top flat surface is going to be the new would
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speaker 2: sitting out there Thursday so it's stating that out can you text me or not willing to buy the grout because if you're not dead I don't like to not say that I'm trying to figure out what to get. That would be appropriate okay then don't worry about it I'll do it don't even know the factors that I'm trying to ascertain to get you the right materials I understand that I'm not saying that I won't buy you grout or thin side I'm trying to do you have the information necessary for you to be able to make a good decision off so I'm not going to put you in that situation
speaker 1: if you do that
speaker 2: so you don't want me to get ground or thinset with our discount those why are you guessing that you should do it when I get a discount and I don't feel comfortable with the way that you treated me and the way that you took did I do wrong you didn't do anything wrong you just made it clear that that's not a way that you're going to be able to help me because you need to become a whole lot more involved in knowing what's happening then you are so it's it's extra extra people extra middleman and I'm going to simplify my life I understand that it's both of our money and I get a discount if I buy it and it makes more sense to buy the appropriate material than the N. Material oh not trying to make your life more complicated it will be more complicated than you used the wrong material because then it won't work off by it all of the shame and embarrassment you just caused me to feel with your trying to make you much trying to make you feel that same I love you good because whatever you wanted me to think it actually didn't change my decision so I've made a decision and I hope that you can be okay with my decision so 5:35 a.m. right like the way that you're cheating me I'm not sure what you mean
speaker 1: do
speaker 2: you mean you don't like how it feels home is confident in making decisions independently of you are you saying this is our both of our house you're costing more money and bypassing my judgment in a field of expertise that I should have asked the question like it doesn't make any sense my feelings that you just gave me for my poor decision and hopefully get out of it okay emotionally and you will try to feeling the same okay well I don't know I don't know what to tell you it sounds like you're having trouble processing and I genuinely think that this is most of our house that we should be able to make a decision about white grout and the battery life on the materials that our president the house that more work overtime it's not anything based. And and I think that that's something that you can spend some time processing this week and I'm not really getting hard for you to understand all the factors I'm just saying both of our both pretty we should do the right thing and your your your tone of voice and the way that you're talking to me is not actually kind or appropriate it's I'm I'm sorry that I'm sorry that my my phone doesn't feel good to you I'm going to spend a lot of time this week listening to this conversation and I'm going to read listen to it now I'm make sure that some people who I trust to have really good tones listen to it with me to help me work on my phone because it's important to me for you to feel that way because you can you very much and I do understand the concept of joint property and I do understand the concept of one person spending joint assets without input for the other person and I do know how that feels so I genuinely can sympathize with how this might be really hard for you and I understand that this is a really hard for you it doesn't mean that I care about you any less it's simply that I have confidence to make a decision and it might be a little weird at first but at some point I'm going to get used to how it feels then it's something you'll get used to how it feels and we're both going to survive so after you adapt and do it 5:35 bye