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speaker 2: this call Maybe yeah did you hear what I'm saying to you did you hear what I was saying to you I think so I need that for a long time I think so okay what did you think I was saying to you you're saying that you don't want me to have any distortions about my ability to see the kids and you want me to have them as long as I don't spend money or other people off no I didn't say I want you to have them okay I think I sent you I don't want you to imagine that the amount of time you see your kids has anything to do with anybody else in the entire universe besides your own decisions that's always been the case wow so so I got that I definitely want to argue about it but you you're trying to do it right now you're trying to take the whole thing and pull it back in my lap so that no matter what happens if you did what I told you to got you said that you're not paying me to see the kids I don't know what to do I'm out of control in life life of the amount of time that you spend with your children
speaker 1: I never have you have
speaker 2: to have a wild imagination to think that that's something that I've ever been in control not appropriate for you to put that off on me the amount of time you spend with them is the function of the decisions that you have made okay okay okay and it would be very appropriate and very honoring if you would use our family wizard calendar feature and what is the purpose of that exactly who you feel comfortable and confident that there's clarity in planning and that you recognize that making commitments to be somewhere at a certain time is something that people should be able to expect you to follow through on I don't think the power family contributes to them anyway and you never get the calendar feature except the day that you use the calendar and calendars an existing early thousands of years so when I text you can I change tomorrow at 2 p.m. like that is also a calendar the fascination with the same it's not a Fascination I'm telling you that something that would honor me and what time y'all have a Fascination and telling you you really something that you have an opportunity to do two shows up to me and give me security that you're not supposed to give me security that you care about how it feels okay but I'm just really hurt that you would take something that I want to do good from my children and good for me and good for the health of our family and good for you see about it is like the horse plan a without any deals that divorce cleaning but recording our phone conversations is not I don't understand that like this entire life station is you reading you word opinion into recorded transcribed line so that you can recall it later this is something that we already talked about ready know that I disagree it definitely is not on any of this I it is bed bug since I had any thought that we're going to have something happening Port I thought I had to pull the phone because what I'm going to happen have you have you changed your feelings about that hello to change my feelings about it but I can't have no reason to need support app when we're not subject to a court order to do with cleaning it was a week ago that you asked me to come over and do a project at your house and no not dead why are you lying that's a lie lie lie you said that you had to come over to get it to I haven't been expecting you to bring your trailer but you're lying about me and saying that I invited you over please don't do that. But I don't see that it's the main to the point which is that you can agree on our location without a cord abs and only purpose of a courthouse is dead depends some access to the legal system so it's not it's nothing to do with the legal system that thing it just creates a record that we both have a gear S2 that we can be confident reflects the communication that occurred it's no different than your phone system which I don't but I don't understand wage record obsession with you are you thinking that you might go to because you also tell me what was the reason you wouldn't let me see the papers you were shredded which just bothers my mind because your behaviors are so paranoid and consistent with what you're saying out loud
speaker 1: old phone which is
speaker 2: that if it came to it you would settle and not dispute it and if you if you changed your plans I just want to know that how the money I'm wondering something to helping yes I'm one hundred percent every day of my life making dozens and dozens and dozens of decisions in my communication with me in my planner and my finance is all of everything I do in my whole life every day is trusting in this life yeah that we're going to settle if I need to divorce you but over and over and over and over and over you tell me you tell me you're taking these actions out of fear that something is going to get presented as evidence and I'm not busy that way at all and you keep thinking that I'm getting things because I'm wanting to get evidence or create evidence and I'm not I I think about my settlement and I am thinking about trying to stay there I'm trying I'm thinking about trying to stay married to you and I'm trying really hard and I'm thinking about trying to divorce you which I have full insurance is not going to go to trial based on what you've told me okay says I'm acting in good faith based on there it's you need to behave as though there's going to be a trial and you need to trust that I am seeing a good I am behaving as though there is not going to be a child okay so you told me that you were didn't want me to have papers cuz you were scared they were going to get submitted as evidence and waste time and money on it it doesn't make sense it's not going to be home, what are you talking about that makes no sense so why are you behaving like you need to withhold things for me that I can use as evidence when there's not going to be a trial to present evidence I don't get it you can't use that as evidence because it doesn't have any information I know you're the one who said that today and I'm the one who said I can't use that as evidence where are you talking about it has no accurate information and you're like yeah but that wouldn't be so interested in arguing that but you told me actually he told me specifically that you instinctively repelled it for me because you were scared I was going to try to use it as evidence I don't I have no interest in arguing with you anymore I know but it makes no sense if we're not going to trial do you foresee a scenario in which we might go to trial I know I hope no I can't do it that you promised like I don't I've been operating for months with a promise from you that that's not going to happen and now you're telling me that was all a smokescreen and you might take me to court anyway I I don't cut it how could you do this to me how could you do this to me