speaker 1: speaker 2: this call may be recorded press one to accept hey did you hear me oh okay anyways but the problem Behavior was you Shifting the blame onto me for the fact that you have it changed anything about your work schedule sounds accurate and I'm not on my way to schedule anything but you did you did in November and December like the actual reason the actual reason that you weren't with your kids wasn't because I ever stopped you even one time the actual reason was your work schedule and you would get mad at me and say I don't have it's not enough time but you were the one who was choosing to have a job that has you getting off work at about 4:00 or whatever it is in Jacksonville she's you ever want to make changes if you ever want to make changes to that if you are ever want to get a job in front of you know you can get off at 3 p.m. you're capable of doing that it's just a matter of priorities in your life like you know them but it's not on me it's if it was never my fault that you weren't spending more time with your kids just like it wasn't your fault when you lived with me just like it's not my fault Meryl it off it's always been a hundred percent on you it's still a hundred percent on his that is not like that is not the same side you understand what I'm saying concerns I'm not saying that you need to as far as I know you guys are spending all your time at home and you don't want me at home so if I'm going to see them I have to take them away here okay I'm not okay with you spending money and I'm not okay with you exposing them to viruses but thought those were obvious things that I shouldn't have to tell you because I mean adult can see that it wouldn't be appropriate to spend money right now in any adult can see that it wouldn't be appropriate to expose them to other people right now yeah I don't know what you're getting that really are you calling me because I just want to make sure that you're not having any fantasies because the fantasies that you believed in November and December seem to be pretty ingrained belief systems are more able to overturn them in case you're creating any more fantasies about what happens in April and May just want to go ahead with that before it's too late so I think what you're saying is I can take the money and go long as they don't see anybody else oh yeah okay but I mean that's that's always been the case always maybe some taken to the concerns that you might spending time with your kids I'm concerned about the blue shift in that happens I'm concerned about how you spoke to me on the phone this morning and said when I lived there I said it was more time with my children than I do now as if I'm in the cause of my children not having an active father in their lives need the blade the plane need the plane plane they do you have a plane suck it up to log cabin or the I am Sam can I have your name please Thursday Thursday yep Little Joe's Catering or pick-up it can get to it if you want to say you can put it back in the box did you hear what I said to you earlier I think that's it that's it hello hello Dustin are you there hello yes hello hello hello hello hello