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speaker 1: huh what did you learn you're cut out when did you learn in your class
speaker 2: it was graduations so so their stories and we get them
speaker 1: cards okay. it's not
speaker 2: viable study pretty soon
speaker 1: all right by oh no not yet oh it's not a burden to me for you to tell me that you bought have doubts about you know your the abilities I I it's not a burden to me for you to tell me that you doubt you can make it because I I know you better so
speaker 2: okay what okay
speaker 1: I know you know I know you're strong enough and I know that you're brave enough and I know that you're stubborn enough and I know that you're smart enough well you're not going to convince me different Dustin I know you way too intimately
speaker 2: okay
speaker 1: to say that you're going to devote your life to being a great husband and father and you actually devote yourself to that and that's what you're going to become the only people you can convince different or people who don't know you as well I
speaker 2: just had a really stressful call with my mom so not super talking to it right now
speaker 1: yes she doesn't she doesn't know you quite as well as I do that she
speaker 2: that's true she's all up in arms about you not giving me a
speaker 1: house did you tell her
speaker 2: about it what's she going to do I don't know
speaker 1: did you tell her that you can't afford it and did she say that she would give you $50,000 did you tell her that you could just live here yeah and see things that you need to like pretend you got
speaker 2: kicked out no she said then you should move in there and she should have to go somewhere
speaker 1: else and did you tell her you do that oh so you've got your mom worried about where you're going to live
speaker 2: basically I didn't give her worried about it just worried
speaker 1: about I know but you're not seeing her that you're an adult and you can figure out where to live on your own and that is not appropriate for her to be getting involved in that because you got about it and it's not a business yeah well good that's good what do you think she's going to do
speaker 2: continue to be a problem my entire life know I mean about
speaker 1: getting you a house that you can't afford to live in I
speaker 2: don't know where she's going to try and kidnap me or Dead Sea correct me or something
speaker 1: y I don't know well why are you saying that
speaker 2: imagining what she's capable
speaker 1: of yeah but it didn't you just say you thought that she was going to try to do something about getting you in a house
speaker 2: yeah well she wants me she definitely wants me to come up there
speaker 1: oh go live with her basically oh wow it's pretty dangerous
speaker 2: Dustin I know I'm stressed out
speaker 1: have you talked to your attorney about Matt
speaker 2: now
speaker 1: why are you laughing
speaker 2: pasta ton of money and what I think about it plus he probably thinks I'm nuts now to you plus I am not know
speaker 1: yeah just I wonder if there's anything that you can do to protect yourself from your mother trying to take ownership of you you know what I mean
speaker 2: there is I'm pretty sure I'm going to need a different attorney at least getting close to that why would you need a different
speaker 1: attorney cuz he thinks I'm nuts oh you're saying he wouldn't help you drop something to protect you from your
speaker 2: mom I don't know thank you listed not being willing to do that
speaker 1: why you say that
speaker 2: because he's worried about me being crazy
speaker 1: really did he really say that I don't know I forgot yeah do you know if they've lined up a counselor for you yet for when you get
speaker 2: out they've got a couple of prospects but all right when it's one or the other yet okay I also want to know if we want to go to marriage counseling oh here yes I'm seeing this guy came through here and told me he does marriage counseling over Skype
speaker 1: who was it
speaker 2: pingleton I think I have fun of it but pingleton it's like a I don't know if you still works for focus on the family or if that was just