speaker 1:  this call may be recorded press one to accept hello hey sorry about that hello
speaker 2: hello oh hey sorry about
speaker 1: that what yeah it's like it's got that out smoking inside music have you found that that's I think it from
speaker 2: hey sorry Dustin I actually haven't heard I haven't heard anything yet been saying this whole phone call I was
speaker 1: I couldn't hear you either so I wouldn't change anything
speaker 2: right now but I wasn't talking I was helping the kids with something
speaker 1: hello hey
speaker 2: you were talking but I didn't have the phone up to my ear so I couldn't hear you
speaker 1: I was just telling my roommate he could play music on the T if you wanted
speaker 2: oh okay you do understand that there's nothing that could ever happen in this universe that would stop me from devoting every ounce of my being every moment of my life forever to the best interest of you and the
speaker 1: kid thank you
speaker 2: so to know whether you are actually committed parenting then at least through age 18 is not an unreasonable question it's fair it's fair to me veteran married or divorced from you 6 to know what your commitment is
speaker 1: what are you asking
speaker 2: in the event of a divorce what would your intentions
speaker 1: be I have zero plans or intentions for that that's not right it's not right
speaker 2: it's not right it's not fair to me I have huge decisions to make for how I'm going to provide for our kids you're pursuing remarriage it's completely different from me then if you don't ever want to speak to me
speaker 1: again speak to you all the time
speaker 2: I know but you're not making any commitments for what you would do if I divorce you not showing yourself to be a trustworthy faithful person that you're wanting me to believe you can be like I called you to ask you if you meant that when you said that you wouldn't have your name I'm in no I'm no more clear on what you meant when you said that that I was when I picked up the phone and called you I I literally don't know why you said that I literally don't know if you meant that I don't
speaker 1: like I forgot I think about maybe about
speaker 2: that you have to think about whether you would be willing to remarry me
speaker 1: and he told you I would remarry again no no
speaker 2: and we have a recording of the conversation remember so that was pretty manipulative of you to say I already told you I dream are you I know but Dustin you know the context of the whole conversation right you know all the things that you said that you know all the many many things that you've said the work that up and make it sound really uncertain
speaker 1: that's when I text you
speaker 2: what
speaker 1: I'll try and be more clear about it when I text you what do you mean
speaker 2: you just said I'll have to think about
speaker 1: that yeah
speaker 2: you just said I don't know what I do
speaker 1: like I said that would be any more clear about it when I text you oh text me yes why would you do that I have time to think about it I
speaker 2: mean if you're needing to think about it then that's sounds pretty uncertain I'm just saying like when you said to me I told you that I agree married you like like it should have been obvious to me or like you were perfectly clear you shouldn't have talked to me like
speaker 1: that sorry
speaker 2: like I was dumb for missing how clear you've been when you know that couldn't be further yes we I'm making all the credit cards minimum
speaker 1: payments okay
speaker 2: we're spending like a ton on credit card interest
speaker 1: I'm sorry