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speaker 2: okay huh what did you learn you're cut out when did you learn as your class it was graduations so people sold their stories and rewrote them cards off bulb it's not a viable study for you soon by month it's not a burden to me for you to tell me that you have doubts about you know your abilities cancel I I it's not a burden to me say you to tell me that you doubt you can make it because I I know you better so okay what okay I know you know I know you're strong enough and I know that you're brave enough and I know that you're stubborn enough and I know that you're smart enough money well you're not going to convince me different that's an I know you way too intimately okay to say that you're going to devote your life to being a great husband and father and you actually devote yourself to that and that's what you're going to become the only people you can convince different or people who don't know you as well I just had a really stressful call with my mom so I'm not super talking about right now yes she doesn't she does a million quite as well as I do this she that's true she's all up in arms about you not giving me a house did you tell her about it what's she going to do I don't know did you tell her that you can't afford it yeah and did she say that she would give you $50,000 did you tell her that you could just live here yeah and she thinks that you need to like pretend you got kicked out no she said then you should move in there and she should have to go somewhere else did you tell her you do that so you've got your mom worried about where you're going to live basically I didn't give her worried about it just worried about you know but you're not seeing her that you're an adult and you can figure out where to live on your own and that it's not appropriate for her to be getting involved in that because you got and it's not a business that's good what do you think she's going to do continue to be a problem my entire life know I mean about getting you a house that you can't afford to live in I don't know where she's going to try and kidnap me or off speaker acne or something y I don't know well why are you saying that imagining what she's capable of yeah but it didn't you just say you thought that she was going to try to do something about getting you in a house yeah well she wants me she definitely wants me to come up there oh go live with her basically oh wow it's pretty dangerous Dustin I know I'm stressed out have you talked to your attorney about that now why are you laughing pasta ton of money and can I speak to think about it plus he pricing something that's now too plus I am now too yeah just I wonder if there's anything that you can do to protect yourself from your mother trying to take ownership of you you know what I mean there is I'm pretty sure I'm going to need a different attorney at least getting close to that why would you need a different attorney cuz he thinks I'm nuts oh you're saying he wouldn't help you draft something to protect you from your mom I don't know I think he's listed not being willing to do that why you say that because he's he's worried about me being crazies really did he really say that I don't know I forgot yeah do you know if they've lined up a counselor for you yet for when you get out they've got a couple of prospects but correct but it's the one or the other yet okay they also want to know if we want to go to marriage counseling oh here yes some famous guy came through here and told me he does marriage counseling over Skype who is it Singleton I think they have fun of it but pingleton it's like a I don't know if you still work for focus on the family or if that was just