speaker 1:  hey
speaker 2: hey Mommy
speaker 1: do you graduate
speaker 2: tonight yes
speaker 1: yeah congratulations
speaker 2: my mom tried to extend my stay here cuz we don't have the house situation figured out and they won't let me basically which is really strange because a ton of people have stayed here.
speaker 1: Yeah but basically they perceive that you're just kicking the can down the road
speaker 2: and
speaker 1: what you need more than anything is to figure out what you're doing with your life I guess that's good I mean right it's not like it has to do with they don't have enough beds there right I mean right
speaker 2: there's room and it's not like they would weigh in with me on that but then even think of
speaker 1: that month I know but you can tell if
speaker 2: there's no they're pretty full here I mean yeah I'm pretty full sudden it's possible that's possible okay. and
speaker 1: your mom already knows that hotels are less than $600 a day if that's really what she's wanting
speaker 2: to do she won't she doesn't want me to stay in the hotel room by myself so she's saying well until I can she's got a bunch of my stuff so she's saying you can bring your stuff down you should either go to Maryland and stay with Jeff or come to Portland and see with
speaker 1: me yeah so she was controlling you with her money and we can send a police after your stuff anytime you know you know what I mean you don't need to feel like she owns you and get to tell you what to
speaker 2: do well I told her that I wasn't sure if I would choose one of those but well it's not I mean wage know what it is is hey it's really nice it's
speaker 1: I'll let you know what I need and I'll also let you know when I need to get my stuff back but the therapist decides when you get to live by yourself not your mom so they seem to
speaker 2: think that you know the therapist I'd agree with her that I shouldn't go to a hotel and found myself quite honestly cutting heads already said
speaker 1: that oh oh he said he would go to an apartment that has no furniture but you can't go to a hotel that has a comfortable bed sleeping
speaker 2: he said that makes sense but you that way her concerns makes sense to
speaker 1: him right but I'm saying he's willing for you to go to an
speaker 2: apartment yeah I got the
speaker 1: apartment would literally be like
speaker 2: unfurnished right you know what I'm saying yeah I think but I I don't think that you're misrepresenting it I think that's what they think would be done or yeah yeah
speaker 1: I'm just saying you can think about it you know what I mean like you can you can think about it for yourself and go okay am I am I capable of sleeping in a hotel yes I am you know
speaker 2: I think so I don't know yeah
speaker 1: do I have a core belief that things can get better yes I do yeah
speaker 2: and you ready okay I got it written down here right now okay I'm proud of
speaker 1: you and I'm happy for you and I think that you're amazing and I miss you I do this is not a surprise
speaker 2: okay all right I guess I'll call you later all right love you
speaker 1: all right love you too bye